"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi, I'm fairly new to the site, have read a little but this is the first time I've posted.

I been talking to this one girl I'm into for a little bit now (less than a month). Last week she went away for a course and won't be back for another month or so. I know we're gonna talk while she's gone but should I contact her first or only contact her after she's tried to contact me. I'm not attached to this chick or anything, I'd just rather not give her the impression that I'm needy (which I'm not) and scare her away (which would be a shame since she's a cool girl with her **** together). Thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just send her a casual text/e-mail saying "Hey, hope everything is going well in [enter location here].

If you structure it that way, it doesn't appear needy, because it doesn't require a response. This is also good, because if she is interested, she will likely go out of her way to contact you back and let you know what is going on.
 
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the_professional said:
Just send her a casual text/e-mail saying "Hey, hope everything is going well in [enter location here].

If you structure it that way, it doesn't appear needy, because it doesn't require a response. This is also good, because if she is interested, she will likely go out of her way to contact you back and let you know what is going on.
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well I know she's interested, and she's already told me she'll contact me (probably by email since she doesn't have a phone there and can only get access to a computer once in a while). I just didn't know whether I should contact her before that.
 
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