So there's this girl I used to know during my AFC days and I once asked her out but she rejected me because she wasn't ready to start dating and friendzoned me(this was 6 or 7 years ago). After a few months I found out she started dating so I decided to stop talking to her completely, didn't confront her about it I just went NC. At the time I was this chubby boy, but thanks to being extremely active in university I quickly lost all that weight in a matter of 3 months. Three months after losing weight she would literally chase after me everytime she spotted me on campus to greet me, and she kept commenting on how I'm looking healthy. Now and then I would test the waters to see if I had a shot with her, but she still wasn't very clear about her interest. So eventually I left her alone went NC again and this time I deleted her everywhere on Facebook, BBM etc...a few months later she would add me again everywhere and initiated contact, still wasn't clear about her interest. I stopped giving her too much attention, she was always the one who initiated contact and we would chat for a while until the conversation died out, I wouldn't try to carry the conversation or ask her out on a date because I don't want to give her the idea that I still had feelings for her or that I'm desperate. At one point we didn't speak for 3 full years, but she still popped up and starting talking to me telling me about a movie that reminded her of me. At one point I realised that I actually really liked this girl and it was affecting my dating life because every time she popped up I'd start thinking about her all over again. Sometime last year I decided completely NC, not just deleting her but also block her on every app I have her on so she won't try to speak with me again, I even put her number on the reject list.
I open my email today, I find an email from her trying to reach out to me. Part of me wants to tell her to fvck off and never speak to me again, another part of me wants to confront her about all of this so we can settle it once and for all.
I'm confused, what should I do?
I open my email today, I find an email from her trying to reach out to me. Part of me wants to tell her to fvck off and never speak to me again, another part of me wants to confront her about all of this so we can settle it once and for all.
I'm confused, what should I do?