Ryan Adams
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I know but as of now I don't
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
need advice from the masters of getting woman.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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gotcha.
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would i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark? or just go about my business and not even mention v-day and just wait till about thur or Fri then mention us going out to eat?
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No its what gay men do....leave this woman till the weekend, so she starts to wonder about you, message other womenwould i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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lol I will
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what if she says something to me?
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I read the dj bible just alot of info to absorb. I'm trying man that's why I'm asking all these stupid questions I'm trying to do it the right way lol
thats why you read them 10 times, its a pretty simple mindset
you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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why do I keep feeling like i gotta hit her up and make her feel special? lol
cause youve got no other women and no life...or youd be hitting the gym, learning the guitar, learning philosophy, Art, becoming an Athlete whatever
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
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I go to the gym everyday and know how to play the guitar quite well lol but I get it man I'm trying to change my mindset
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so im gonna be working ot friday and Saturday so I can't take her out regardless. I still haven't texted her since sat night. should I even say anything to her. or just let her text me?
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anyone have any input on this?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.