Ryan Adams
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I know but as of now I don't
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
need advice from the masters of getting woman.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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gotcha.
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would i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark? or just go about my business and not even mention v-day and just wait till about thur or Fri then mention us going out to eat?
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No its what gay men do....leave this woman till the weekend, so she starts to wonder about you, message other womenwould i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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lol I will
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what if she says something to me?
Ryan Adams
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I read the dj bible just alot of info to absorb. I'm trying man that's why I'm asking all these stupid questions I'm trying to do it the right way lol
thats why you read them 10 times, its a pretty simple mindset
you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ryan Adams
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why do I keep feeling like i gotta hit her up and make her feel special? lol
cause youve got no other women and no life...or youd be hitting the gym, learning the guitar, learning philosophy, Art, becoming an Athlete whatever
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
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I go to the gym everyday and know how to play the guitar quite well lol but I get it man I'm trying to change my mindset
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so im gonna be working ot friday and Saturday so I can't take her out regardless. I still haven't texted her since sat night. should I even say anything to her. or just let her text me?
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anyone have any input on this?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.