Ryan Adams
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I know but as of now I don't
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
need advice from the masters of getting woman.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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gotcha.
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would i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark? or just go about my business and not even mention v-day and just wait till about thur or Fri then mention us going out to eat?
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No its what gay men do....leave this woman till the weekend, so she starts to wonder about you, message other womenwould i be a complete sucker to send her something for Valentine's day. like a happy vday cutie! or a funn y remark?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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lol I will
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what if she says something to me?
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I read the dj bible just alot of info to absorb. I'm trying man that's why I'm asking all these stupid questions I'm trying to do it the right way lol
thats why you read them 10 times, its a pretty simple mindset
you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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you basically do everything the total opposite of what 99% of men are doing!!
Because theyve been conditioned by social media etc that women are the some prize
A woman will always believe the man to be the prize... its in her DNA to have children with the man shes highly attracted to
dont be the one sitting texting for an hour
dont be the one who offers to fix her car unless shes your LTR obviously
dont be the one who sets campfires up her azz
dont be the one who follows her around in the pub like a little puppy
dont be the one who constantly tries to make her laugh..women say they love blokes who make them laugh THEY DONT (obviously a little is fine/scarcity)
dont send any verbally abusive texts if she works you up a little or cant make a date
be direct dont ask her what SHE wants to do you D.G.A.F !!!!!! your as exciting as sh4t to be around and it would be cool if she joined YOU
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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why do I keep feeling like i gotta hit her up and make her feel special? lol
cause youve got no other women and no life...or youd be hitting the gym, learning the guitar, learning philosophy, Art, becoming an Athlete whatever
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
she would actually be a hindrance to your life , youd roll your eyes playfully everytime she texts you like "SHES HASSLE"
thats exactly how you get her too desire you
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I go to the gym everyday and know how to play the guitar quite well lol but I get it man I'm trying to change my mindset
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so im gonna be working ot friday and Saturday so I can't take her out regardless. I still haven't texted her since sat night. should I even say anything to her. or just let her text me?
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anyone have any input on this?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.