"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need Advice from the Experience Ones....

GA Boy77

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Well for starters I'm new at this sort of thing. I've really never asked out any women in my life. Mostly I've been setup or the girl has asked me out. I've been told by many women that I'm really good looking but the only problem I'm real shy. I get so nervous that I cant think or even know what to say to a female.

Can you guys help me out? How can I overcome my shyness? A really good one I would like to know is...How do you approach a female at the gym?

Great site by the way. :up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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joekerr31

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try just talking to them like you would talk to your male buddies - except dont talk about how hot other women are, otherwise anything goes.

you would be SHOCKED at what happens.

more often than not i actually find that they can't figure out why it is you're so casual and relaxed around them and they flirt like made to try and get your d*ck hard so that you act like most of the men they know.
 

amoka

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I recommend reading the Holy Book* generated for those willing to inherit the kingdom of womanship. There are some useful informations there to assist overcome gynephobic feelings.

*Bible ( Standard DJ Version)

-Amoka
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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