"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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GA Boy77

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Well for starters I'm new at this sort of thing. I've really never asked out any women in my life. Mostly I've been setup or the girl has asked me out. I've been told by many women that I'm really good looking but the only problem I'm real shy. I get so nervous that I cant think or even know what to say to a female.

Can you guys help me out? How can I overcome my shyness? A really good one I would like to know is...How do you approach a female at the gym?

Great site by the way. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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try just talking to them like you would talk to your male buddies - except dont talk about how hot other women are, otherwise anything goes.

you would be SHOCKED at what happens.

more often than not i actually find that they can't figure out why it is you're so casual and relaxed around them and they flirt like made to try and get your d*ck hard so that you act like most of the men they know.
 
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I recommend reading the Holy Book* generated for those willing to inherit the kingdom of womanship. There are some useful informations there to assist overcome gynephobic feelings.

*Bible ( Standard DJ Version)

-Amoka
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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