"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need Advice from the Experience Ones....

GA Boy77

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Well for starters I'm new at this sort of thing. I've really never asked out any women in my life. Mostly I've been setup or the girl has asked me out. I've been told by many women that I'm really good looking but the only problem I'm real shy. I get so nervous that I cant think or even know what to say to a female.

Can you guys help me out? How can I overcome my shyness? A really good one I would like to know is...How do you approach a female at the gym?

Great site by the way. :up:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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joekerr31

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try just talking to them like you would talk to your male buddies - except dont talk about how hot other women are, otherwise anything goes.

you would be SHOCKED at what happens.

more often than not i actually find that they can't figure out why it is you're so casual and relaxed around them and they flirt like made to try and get your d*ck hard so that you act like most of the men they know.
 

amoka

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I recommend reading the Holy Book* generated for those willing to inherit the kingdom of womanship. There are some useful informations there to assist overcome gynephobic feelings.

*Bible ( Standard DJ Version)

-Amoka
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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