"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ranger655

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Okay its been a while since ive posted a request for advice but the last time i did it really helped me alot. So hopefully you guys will hook me up again. But anyways il give you the lowdown on this situation. Okay im a pretty built guy i play football and stuff and lift alot of weights its basically what i love to do but im a pretty shy guy and i dont really party at all and such. Well this girl im startin to sweat has been given me the eye and talkin to me lately. Well this girl is basically a 9-10 shes hott like no other and she is cool as ****. She hangs with a different group pretty much all the dudes that party and **** . I aint much of a partier and i only moved here last year so we havent talked at all until recently. But shes been seriously given me the eye and i know she has to be thinkin of me somehow i mean im not exagerating when i say she checks me out nonstop everytime i look in her direction in class she is starin right at me or everytime i blurt somethin out she responds with somethin back to me you know. but at the same time we dont even say hi to eachother in the hall ways you know. The longest convo we have had is when she gave me a ride home the other day. but I know she digs me cuz i make her laugh whenever we talk and **** I just need to know how to pursue this without screwin **** up. Any advice would really be appreciated.

-Ryan
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LikRetsam

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You got her well in the bag so far... Why do you need our help? Believe in yourself buddy and if you fail, let it just serve as a lesson for next time!
 

Jerky Boi

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D00d, from the sounds of it, it looks like she's more than interested in you. Her laughing at everything you say is a plus too :] Don't be afraid to go up and approach her. Get the number, and set some kind of a get-together up. Like LikRetSam said, just believe in yourself man. You don't need a lot of our advice about this one. Good luck :]
 

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aight man thanks for the back up dude. Yeah i probably should be more confident and junk. But how would you guys approach this if the only time you ever realy see her is during a history class. im in a big ****in school so its like i only see here once in a while out of class.

-Ryan
 

JSH

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dont approach her in class, do it after or before ((preferably after, then when she rejects you, you can go off crying :D ), preferably id try to ask her on her own, so theres less pressure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ranger655

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thanks for the advice dude. Ill definitly get somethin goin.
 

undesputable

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just keep doing the same, dont talk to her all that much, just what you have been doing. shes trying to get you so play hard to get, tease her....
 
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