"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need advice badly

ranger655

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Okay its been a while since ive posted a request for advice but the last time i did it really helped me alot. So hopefully you guys will hook me up again. But anyways il give you the lowdown on this situation. Okay im a pretty built guy i play football and stuff and lift alot of weights its basically what i love to do but im a pretty shy guy and i dont really party at all and such. Well this girl im startin to sweat has been given me the eye and talkin to me lately. Well this girl is basically a 9-10 shes hott like no other and she is cool as ****. She hangs with a different group pretty much all the dudes that party and **** . I aint much of a partier and i only moved here last year so we havent talked at all until recently. But shes been seriously given me the eye and i know she has to be thinkin of me somehow i mean im not exagerating when i say she checks me out nonstop everytime i look in her direction in class she is starin right at me or everytime i blurt somethin out she responds with somethin back to me you know. but at the same time we dont even say hi to eachother in the hall ways you know. The longest convo we have had is when she gave me a ride home the other day. but I know she digs me cuz i make her laugh whenever we talk and **** I just need to know how to pursue this without screwin **** up. Any advice would really be appreciated.

-Ryan
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LikRetsam

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You got her well in the bag so far... Why do you need our help? Believe in yourself buddy and if you fail, let it just serve as a lesson for next time!
 

Jerky Boi

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D00d, from the sounds of it, it looks like she's more than interested in you. Her laughing at everything you say is a plus too :] Don't be afraid to go up and approach her. Get the number, and set some kind of a get-together up. Like LikRetSam said, just believe in yourself man. You don't need a lot of our advice about this one. Good luck :]
 

ranger655

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aight man thanks for the back up dude. Yeah i probably should be more confident and junk. But how would you guys approach this if the only time you ever realy see her is during a history class. im in a big ****in school so its like i only see here once in a while out of class.

-Ryan
 

JSH

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dont approach her in class, do it after or before ((preferably after, then when she rejects you, you can go off crying :D ), preferably id try to ask her on her own, so theres less pressure.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ranger655

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thanks for the advice dude. Ill definitly get somethin goin.
 

undesputable

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just keep doing the same, dont talk to her all that much, just what you have been doing. shes trying to get you so play hard to get, tease her....
 
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