"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ranger655

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Okay its been a while since ive posted a request for advice but the last time i did it really helped me alot. So hopefully you guys will hook me up again. But anyways il give you the lowdown on this situation. Okay im a pretty built guy i play football and stuff and lift alot of weights its basically what i love to do but im a pretty shy guy and i dont really party at all and such. Well this girl im startin to sweat has been given me the eye and talkin to me lately. Well this girl is basically a 9-10 shes hott like no other and she is cool as ****. She hangs with a different group pretty much all the dudes that party and **** . I aint much of a partier and i only moved here last year so we havent talked at all until recently. But shes been seriously given me the eye and i know she has to be thinkin of me somehow i mean im not exagerating when i say she checks me out nonstop everytime i look in her direction in class she is starin right at me or everytime i blurt somethin out she responds with somethin back to me you know. but at the same time we dont even say hi to eachother in the hall ways you know. The longest convo we have had is when she gave me a ride home the other day. but I know she digs me cuz i make her laugh whenever we talk and **** I just need to know how to pursue this without screwin **** up. Any advice would really be appreciated.

-Ryan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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You got her well in the bag so far... Why do you need our help? Believe in yourself buddy and if you fail, let it just serve as a lesson for next time!
 

Jerky Boi

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D00d, from the sounds of it, it looks like she's more than interested in you. Her laughing at everything you say is a plus too :] Don't be afraid to go up and approach her. Get the number, and set some kind of a get-together up. Like LikRetSam said, just believe in yourself man. You don't need a lot of our advice about this one. Good luck :]
 

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aight man thanks for the back up dude. Yeah i probably should be more confident and junk. But how would you guys approach this if the only time you ever realy see her is during a history class. im in a big ****in school so its like i only see here once in a while out of class.

-Ryan
 

JSH

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dont approach her in class, do it after or before ((preferably after, then when she rejects you, you can go off crying :D ), preferably id try to ask her on her own, so theres less pressure.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ranger655

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thanks for the advice dude. Ill definitly get somethin goin.
 

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just keep doing the same, dont talk to her all that much, just what you have been doing. shes trying to get you so play hard to get, tease her....
 
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