"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need advice bad!!

ELITE

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Me and my girl got back together, she been all over me, We hung out last nite with her and her roomate. n And lots of drinks etc. It was her roomate girlfriends day off, they went to mall etc. After work i got to my girls pad where drinking she wants to check my phone. I say no. Just being mystery, later she all over she has great sex with me, and gives me works. She keeps telling me she loves me, and i wouldnt tell her back and she was more needy. She's all for me, I act kind of lame and look into her phone when she went to restroom. Her roomate told me she had her txt him for her, when I got their dont know why. When I check her phone it was alot of txt msgs. And i got upset and told her wuz up! She wanted to call her roomate, and explain to me which she try to do. I threw my jacket at my girl, and said forget this. She said i always try to acuse her of things etc. She got mad kick me out. Today i try to talk she was acting stuborn and her ego up, after she got jealous over myspace before and delete her account and want me too. Shes acting like a stuborn *****, she was going to treat me out with her girl friends b day. I know what bar they are going to hang, Im tempted to meet up. But shouldnt I know thats so AFC. Need advice should i ice her??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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horaholic

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I dont understand the whole texting deal you're talking about.. Can you explain a little better?
 

WC2

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Sh!t is very typical.. I remember when I was dating women back in college they would want to check my phone all the time cuz they knew I was talking to other chicks and then I'd check theirs and they were talking with other dudes as well.

Whatever bro, it's just a phone. While a text message can be very telling, there's really no point in going through your girl's phone.

If you think she's talking to other guys, then she probably is. You checking her phone then becomes irrelevant.

If you're confident she isn't then she probably isn't.

And you definitely can't go flipping out on your girl unless you're finding some rather shady sh!t being said or late nite phone calls from or to other dudes.

Either way, I repeat, going through your girl's phone is pointless. It's a lose-lose situation. If you don't find anything, you'll just keep looking everyday till you do. And then when you do you're going to flip over something that may or may not be happening. And if it is happening, IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN ANYWAYS.

Go do what you will as far as starting to talk to this chick again, but don't give into her power move.

In other words, if what you found on the phone was scandalous, then she should be apologizing, not the latter.

If however what you found wasn't scandalous at all, it's you who should be apologizing for going thru her phone.
 

Prodigy746

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How old are you ... reason i ask is because you write like you just got out of a second grade.

How do you expect advice when half of the people cant even understand whats going on.
 

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My advice is that this girl should next you because you got some serious grammar issues.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Joe Stud

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SchoolBoy said:
My advice is that this girl should next you because you got some serious grammar issues.

LMAO! I was thinking the same thing, but didn't want to hurt his feelings!
 
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