Me and my girl got back together, she been all over me, We hung out last nite with her and her roomate. n And lots of drinks etc. It was her roomate girlfriends day off, they went to mall etc. After work i got to my girls pad where drinking she wants to check my phone. I say no. Just being mystery, later she all over she has great sex with me, and gives me works. She keeps telling me she loves me, and i wouldnt tell her back and she was more needy. She's all for me, I act kind of lame and look into her phone when she went to restroom. Her roomate told me she had her txt him for her, when I got their dont know why. When I check her phone it was alot of txt msgs. And i got upset and told her wuz up! She wanted to call her roomate, and explain to me which she try to do. I threw my jacket at my girl, and said forget this. She said i always try to acuse her of things etc. She got mad kick me out. Today i try to talk she was acting stuborn and her ego up, after she got jealous over myspace before and delete her account and want me too. Shes acting like a stuborn *****, she was going to treat me out with her girl friends b day. I know what bar they are going to hang, Im tempted to meet up. But shouldnt I know thats so AFC. Need advice should i ice her??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Need advice bad!!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Sh!t is very typical.. I remember when I was dating women back in college they would want to check my phone all the time cuz they knew I was talking to other chicks and then I'd check theirs and they were talking with other dudes as well.
Whatever bro, it's just a phone. While a text message can be very telling, there's really no point in going through your girl's phone.
If you think she's talking to other guys, then she probably is. You checking her phone then becomes irrelevant.
If you're confident she isn't then she probably isn't.
And you definitely can't go flipping out on your girl unless you're finding some rather shady sh!t being said or late nite phone calls from or to other dudes.
Either way, I repeat, going through your girl's phone is pointless. It's a lose-lose situation. If you don't find anything, you'll just keep looking everyday till you do. And then when you do you're going to flip over something that may or may not be happening. And if it is happening, IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN ANYWAYS.
Go do what you will as far as starting to talk to this chick again, but don't give into her power move.
In other words, if what you found on the phone was scandalous, then she should be apologizing, not the latter.
If however what you found wasn't scandalous at all, it's you who should be apologizing for going thru her phone.
Whatever bro, it's just a phone. While a text message can be very telling, there's really no point in going through your girl's phone.
If you think she's talking to other guys, then she probably is. You checking her phone then becomes irrelevant.
If you're confident she isn't then she probably isn't.
And you definitely can't go flipping out on your girl unless you're finding some rather shady sh!t being said or late nite phone calls from or to other dudes.
Either way, I repeat, going through your girl's phone is pointless. It's a lose-lose situation. If you don't find anything, you'll just keep looking everyday till you do. And then when you do you're going to flip over something that may or may not be happening. And if it is happening, IT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN ANYWAYS.
Go do what you will as far as starting to talk to this chick again, but don't give into her power move.
In other words, if what you found on the phone was scandalous, then she should be apologizing, not the latter.
If however what you found wasn't scandalous at all, it's you who should be apologizing for going thru her phone.
Prodigy746
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How old are you ... reason i ask is because you write like you just got out of a second grade.
How do you expect advice when half of the people cant even understand whats going on.
How do you expect advice when half of the people cant even understand whats going on.
SchoolBoy
Don Juan
My advice is that this girl should next you because you got some serious grammar issues.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
SchoolBoy said:My advice is that this girl should next you because you got some serious grammar issues.
LMAO! I was thinking the same thing, but didn't want to hurt his feelings!