Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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libre

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Well, don't wait for the trip to make a move. Do it now!

There is no better way to gain confidence than by trying things and having them come out alright. You will build your confidence from your successive success' in your love affairs and in work... And, your best chance of success here is if you do make a move. This gal will love it, if you do. Don't waste this opportunity!

If you show your insecurity, this will downgrade your attractiveness. Don't try the «I'm insecure but cute approach.» or else, she will surely put you in the friend category.

Here is the time that this gal wants you to put your balls on the line and you must do it. She is giving you all the positive signs for this.

If ever in a small probability you are shot down in flames while trying, well you will have learned, lived, and believe me, survived. But, you wont be shot down; don't worry.

I respect the other gentleman's opinion, however, I clearly feel that this is a mature woman who goes about her ways in a confident way. I have «frequented» (not sure of the correct english expression) women of this type. And, they are the most attractive and interesting ones. Take my word for it.

Don't worry about doing things less then perfectly; nobody does it 100 % right. As this girl is interested, she will only find it appealing if you miss a couple of steps in your eagerness to «gain her».

She is showing you the way, why not take it?

I would like it that you come back after you have made your move, to let us know how it went.

Come on! Go right now!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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brains_on_legs said:
...I get the feeling she just likes me as a friend.
Bingo! :up:
brains_on_legs said:
What are the telltale signs of a girl who's a close friend turning into a lover?
She wouldn't be doing just the things that friends would do together (the things you described). Hey, do you even know for certain whether she is still dating her boyfriend or not? If a woman was interested in you and knew that you were available she'd let you know.
 

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Your in the friend zone!!!! You've been talking and hanging out with her for a few MONTHS and you haven't even kissed her. Trust me, if a girl likes you, she'll give you an opportunity to hook up with her.



PIMP
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Since you guys are already friends using stuff in the bible could actually screw you over. Her rubbing her breasts against you is pretty umm... yeah good sign I'd say. Could just have been accidental but I doubt it. Just make a move man.
 
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