Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

need advice and insight

libre

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Well, don't wait for the trip to make a move. Do it now!

There is no better way to gain confidence than by trying things and having them come out alright. You will build your confidence from your successive success' in your love affairs and in work... And, your best chance of success here is if you do make a move. This gal will love it, if you do. Don't waste this opportunity!

If you show your insecurity, this will downgrade your attractiveness. Don't try the «I'm insecure but cute approach.» or else, she will surely put you in the friend category.

Here is the time that this gal wants you to put your balls on the line and you must do it. She is giving you all the positive signs for this.

If ever in a small probability you are shot down in flames while trying, well you will have learned, lived, and believe me, survived. But, you wont be shot down; don't worry.

I respect the other gentleman's opinion, however, I clearly feel that this is a mature woman who goes about her ways in a confident way. I have «frequented» (not sure of the correct english expression) women of this type. And, they are the most attractive and interesting ones. Take my word for it.

Don't worry about doing things less then perfectly; nobody does it 100 % right. As this girl is interested, she will only find it appealing if you miss a couple of steps in your eagerness to «gain her».

She is showing you the way, why not take it?

I would like it that you come back after you have made your move, to let us know how it went.

Come on! Go right now!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Francisco d'Anconia

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brains_on_legs said:
...I get the feeling she just likes me as a friend.
Bingo! :up:
brains_on_legs said:
What are the telltale signs of a girl who's a close friend turning into a lover?
She wouldn't be doing just the things that friends would do together (the things you described). Hey, do you even know for certain whether she is still dating her boyfriend or not? If a woman was interested in you and knew that you were available she'd let you know.
 

Pimp-sicle

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Your in the friend zone!!!! You've been talking and hanging out with her for a few MONTHS and you haven't even kissed her. Trust me, if a girl likes you, she'll give you an opportunity to hook up with her.



PIMP
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Since you guys are already friends using stuff in the bible could actually screw you over. Her rubbing her breasts against you is pretty umm... yeah good sign I'd say. Could just have been accidental but I doubt it. Just make a move man.
 
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