"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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libre

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Well, don't wait for the trip to make a move. Do it now!

There is no better way to gain confidence than by trying things and having them come out alright. You will build your confidence from your successive success' in your love affairs and in work... And, your best chance of success here is if you do make a move. This gal will love it, if you do. Don't waste this opportunity!

If you show your insecurity, this will downgrade your attractiveness. Don't try the «I'm insecure but cute approach.» or else, she will surely put you in the friend category.

Here is the time that this gal wants you to put your balls on the line and you must do it. She is giving you all the positive signs for this.

If ever in a small probability you are shot down in flames while trying, well you will have learned, lived, and believe me, survived. But, you wont be shot down; don't worry.

I respect the other gentleman's opinion, however, I clearly feel that this is a mature woman who goes about her ways in a confident way. I have «frequented» (not sure of the correct english expression) women of this type. And, they are the most attractive and interesting ones. Take my word for it.

Don't worry about doing things less then perfectly; nobody does it 100 % right. As this girl is interested, she will only find it appealing if you miss a couple of steps in your eagerness to «gain her».

She is showing you the way, why not take it?

I would like it that you come back after you have made your move, to let us know how it went.

Come on! Go right now!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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brains_on_legs said:
...I get the feeling she just likes me as a friend.
Bingo! :up:
brains_on_legs said:
What are the telltale signs of a girl who's a close friend turning into a lover?
She wouldn't be doing just the things that friends would do together (the things you described). Hey, do you even know for certain whether she is still dating her boyfriend or not? If a woman was interested in you and knew that you were available she'd let you know.
 

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Your in the friend zone!!!! You've been talking and hanging out with her for a few MONTHS and you haven't even kissed her. Trust me, if a girl likes you, she'll give you an opportunity to hook up with her.



PIMP
 

IamtheAlphamale

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Since you guys are already friends using stuff in the bible could actually screw you over. Her rubbing her breasts against you is pretty umm... yeah good sign I'd say. Could just have been accidental but I doubt it. Just make a move man.
 
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