"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need advice about my hair. Pics inside :)

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MayHeM ThEoRy

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http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v167/246/24/633434245/n633434245_215979_1221.jpg



I'm 17 and my hair is usually the length you see in that pic. But I have no idea about semi long/long hairstyles. I just need something to tell the place where I get my hair cut next time. I don't want short, but a longer style that looks sexy and will get the ladies turning, any suggestions? And any other comments would be appriciated as well, go all out and be as brutally honest as possible, call me ugly or w/e I don't care I just want to know! :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't know what look you're going for. If you're going for that sk8r sort of thing, I'd lose the blonde tips since they're more metrosexual. If you're going for the metro look, I suppose the querky hairstyle will work for you with the blonde tips, although I don't know much about metros. It's cool either way, though.

What look are you going for anyway?
 
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you look pretty sleek to me

and unless your name is Jesus, Sampson, or Duncan MacLeod, I don't think you need long hair
 
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check out my post on hair in the HS forum i posted a few pics of long hair styles i posted a few pics that might give you an idea lol too lazy to repost here ^_^

hope it helps
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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