"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need advice about my hair. Pics inside :)

MayHeM ThEoRy

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http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v167/246/24/633434245/n633434245_215979_1221.jpg



I'm 17 and my hair is usually the length you see in that pic. But I have no idea about semi long/long hairstyles. I just need something to tell the place where I get my hair cut next time. I don't want short, but a longer style that looks sexy and will get the ladies turning, any suggestions? And any other comments would be appriciated as well, go all out and be as brutally honest as possible, call me ugly or w/e I don't care I just want to know! :D
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Deacon

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I don't know what look you're going for. If you're going for that sk8r sort of thing, I'd lose the blonde tips since they're more metrosexual. If you're going for the metro look, I suppose the querky hairstyle will work for you with the blonde tips, although I don't know much about metros. It's cool either way, though.

What look are you going for anyway?
 

Obsidian

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you look pretty sleek to me

and unless your name is Jesus, Sampson, or Duncan MacLeod, I don't think you need long hair
 

Envy

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check out my post on hair in the HS forum i posted a few pics of long hair styles i posted a few pics that might give you an idea lol too lazy to repost here ^_^

hope it helps
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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