"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need advice about my hair. Pics inside :)

MayHeM ThEoRy

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http://photos-d.ak.facebook.com/photos-ak-sf2p/v167/246/24/633434245/n633434245_215979_1221.jpg



I'm 17 and my hair is usually the length you see in that pic. But I have no idea about semi long/long hairstyles. I just need something to tell the place where I get my hair cut next time. I don't want short, but a longer style that looks sexy and will get the ladies turning, any suggestions? And any other comments would be appriciated as well, go all out and be as brutally honest as possible, call me ugly or w/e I don't care I just want to know! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Deacon

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I don't know what look you're going for. If you're going for that sk8r sort of thing, I'd lose the blonde tips since they're more metrosexual. If you're going for the metro look, I suppose the querky hairstyle will work for you with the blonde tips, although I don't know much about metros. It's cool either way, though.

What look are you going for anyway?
 

Obsidian

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you look pretty sleek to me

and unless your name is Jesus, Sampson, or Duncan MacLeod, I don't think you need long hair
 

Envy

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check out my post on hair in the HS forum i posted a few pics of long hair styles i posted a few pics that might give you an idea lol too lazy to repost here ^_^

hope it helps
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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