"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a tip on phone calls.

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Ok I met this chick like 3 weeks ago...we hung out last night and had a good time. We just hooked up several times (no sex) and had a good time. However, she can't go out tonight but she still asked me to call her. I absolutely HATE talking on the phone and wasting time, especially with a person ive known for a month. I am more of an "in person" type of guy.

My question is, will it look bad if I just don't call her? I just want to call her tomorrow so we can go out, thats really all I like to use the phone for.

I have her aim name, maybe I can slip her a quick message to tell her I'll just call her over the weekend to go out instead.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't call her this is a trick to see if you are a chump. If you call her you are-- if you don't you aren't: game over. She said she couldn't go out and you said you don't like to talk on the phone: this is the answer to all your questions-- you already know the answers.
 
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I don't think its a test...I am getting a vibe from her that she is real clingy...she calls me A LOT....I wont call her...but if she calls should I even answer?
 
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Do not answer. Call her within the next two or three days, but only if she leaves a message.
 
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Originally posted by playasupreme
Do not answer. Call her within the next two or three days, but only if she leaves a message.
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Hahhaha and why??? If she has high interest in him or his level of attraction with her is high such a call can help alot. It all depends on the girl and situation, sometimes you call, sometimes you dont. I mostly give a fvck about "rules" like these and just call if i feel like it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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your first mistake was letting her tell you what to do. what are you, some kind of wuss? if a woman told me to call her, i'd say, "no. you call me."

simple as that.
 
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