"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need a tip on phone calls.

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Ok I met this chick like 3 weeks ago...we hung out last night and had a good time. We just hooked up several times (no sex) and had a good time. However, she can't go out tonight but she still asked me to call her. I absolutely HATE talking on the phone and wasting time, especially with a person ive known for a month. I am more of an "in person" type of guy.

My question is, will it look bad if I just don't call her? I just want to call her tomorrow so we can go out, thats really all I like to use the phone for.

I have her aim name, maybe I can slip her a quick message to tell her I'll just call her over the weekend to go out instead.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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playasupreme

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Don't call her this is a trick to see if you are a chump. If you call her you are-- if you don't you aren't: game over. She said she couldn't go out and you said you don't like to talk on the phone: this is the answer to all your questions-- you already know the answers.
 

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I don't think its a test...I am getting a vibe from her that she is real clingy...she calls me A LOT....I wont call her...but if she calls should I even answer?
 

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Do not answer. Call her within the next two or three days, but only if she leaves a message.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by playasupreme
Do not answer. Call her within the next two or three days, but only if she leaves a message.
Hahhaha and why??? If she has high interest in him or his level of attraction with her is high such a call can help alot. It all depends on the girl and situation, sometimes you call, sometimes you dont. I mostly give a fvck about "rules" like these and just call if i feel like it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Knicknack

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your first mistake was letting her tell you what to do. what are you, some kind of wuss? if a woman told me to call her, i'd say, "no. you call me."

simple as that.
 
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