"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need a smart a$$ come back to a girl thats dumping me for her loser ex

Little John

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Well, shes not really dumping me but we went out a few times and have been talking every day for a few weeks. I found out she got back together with her loser ex boyfriend and now she is COMPLETELY and totally ignoring me. In 24 hrs, she went from calling me everyday to not answering any of my calls or returning any of my messages. I saw her today at school and she acted like she didnt even know who I was.

Total Ice.

Normally that would bother me, but she's a bit*ch anyway so I got to have a little fun with this. Sooooo.....her birthday is coming up on Monday and I need to come up with something to really piss her off.

I was thinking about texting her something like:



Did the Ice Princess have a happy birthday? Did she get that new snowplow she wanted?

or

Didnt you hear? The north pole called and said they need you to come home, its starting to get warm without you.




I dunno, Im not real good at this stuff. What would you guys do? I really want to piss her off good.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The TallOne

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How about no...

Forget her, move on, learn your lesson with regards to being a emotional tampon.

Revenge is dish best served cold.
 

MindOverMatter

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both of those texts are lame, do yourself a favor and don't send them. what do you think she's gonna do? have a heart meltdown, realize she's wrong, call you and apologize then ditch her bf? look man, if you send that msg, she will laugh at it, and continue to ignore you. only this time she'll be happy knowing she got to you to the point where you still remember her birthday like a sucker. never give her that kind of satisfaction.

just ignore her. i know it's hard since you prolly feel rejected as hell right now, but the best thing for you to do is man up, cut your losses and move on. find another girl worth keeping.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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just let it go and ignore her...
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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evolvingnerd

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and cnosider this
if she's used to you fawning all over her
how do you think she'll feel when u completley ignore her on her birthday?
she'd likely expect you to buy some extravagent gift to buy her back
do'nt go out of your way to ignore her or avoid her
but if she does come up to you, say happy birthday, that's it, do'nt even wait for the response, and continue with what u were doing. be cold. that's what'll hurt. not rude, because she'll justify it as though you were hurt, but by being cold you'll come across as bored with her

best of luck buddy
 

PocoDiablo

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Any contact with her will just make you look desperate and pathetic. It will reinforce the reason why she left you in the first place.
 

Little John

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You guys are right. You are all totally right.

But I never "fawned" over her at all. We were getting along fine and talked alot, I never sucked up to her or kissed her a$$. She used to answer my calls on the 1st or 2nd ring now she rejects them and sends them to voice mail and then wont return my messages. She was always so happy and excited to see me now shes completely ignoreing me.

Im just pissed because I feel used and how rude she was about it, she could of at least had the decency to tell me she got back together with him without me having to ask one of her friends. She never said a word about it she just quit talking to me.

I think the best thing to do is ignore her right back.
 
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