"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plec07

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Alrite well I need some advice on whether or not I should ask out this girl. She shows some interest in me in that I can't have a conversation last with her last more than a minute without her laughing at something I say even if I don't mean for it to be funny. I also tried to get a better picture by leaving a jumper in a class we had together before lunch and as we got to our lockers told her I'd left it somewhere and asked if she would come with me, and sure enough she followed me on a wild goose chase for about 15 mins before I went back to get it and teased her saying it was her fault I forgot it in the first place. She reacts well to light kino (such as giving her a little play hit on her shoulder or puttin my legs next to hers while in lessons, 1ce to the extent of grabbing her leg with mine as we were playing with a football under the table). But I've noticed she never seems to give me a hug as she's going which is what most girls in my school/year do and often leaves rather abruptly with a quick bye and a wave. She also never initiates talking over msn although she's fine to come over and talk to me in person at random and she's fine to hug me when she first comes over it's just when leaving she doesn't.

Basically I don't know if she really is interested in me or just messing about and I don't want to ask her out (bf/gf status not on a date) if I'm not almost entirely sure she'll say yes because we're in quite a lot of classes sitting next to each other and unable to move because of seating plans and I simply don't go well with awkwardness. :(

I don't have a problem with the confidence, well I don't think I do anyway it's simply having to get by sitting next to her every day with any level of awkwardness around that puts me off it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Charm

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Asking her out is the only way to find out. Also, remember to study some posts on HOW to properly ask her out without sounding needy or desperate. Make it seem like you are going to do somethng and you are inviting her to come along.
 

Zerotwoonenine

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OK YOU WILL GIVE ME A REP ON THIS
SHE DEFINITELY LIKES YOU AND IS JUST PLAYING HARD TO GET
this is what my GF still does and we have been going out for one month and half, she still plays games with me and we both know it.
SO GO AND GET THAT DATE AND KNOW THAT SHE WONT SAY NO
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lompa

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I have learnt something great try some thing along these lines:
I am going to the xxx why won't you accompany me?
 

Zerotwoonenine

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no dont do that that is still asking, you have to show that you will go and enjoy your self wherther she comes along or not.
 
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