"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mackdaddy27

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whats a ****y and funny text i can reply with to :

"Hey wat happened 2 u callin me?"



I was thinking

"I got too busy, too many *****es callin me at the same time.....I might be able to squeeze in a call tomorrow like ten minute before I goto bed"



What do you think?


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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jokerlsk

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How about, "I forgot." lol. Sounds like such a douche thing to say
 

CaptainJ

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You sound pathetic and disinterested.

You don't have to come up with ****y and funny suave phrases for everything she says to you

"How was your day?"
"Not much, the usual banging loads of b1tches, staying cool in my hectic lifestyle"

"Are we still going to down to meet your mother this weekend?"
"No, but I'm going down on your mother this weekend."

Actually, that last one sounds quite good.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ready123

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that's too tryhard man and it's not gonna do anything for you. if she's not a dumbass she'll be able to tell you're faking the prizing sht. that plus she'll get turned off because yeah it's ****y, but you left out the funny part. if she likes you enough she might overlook it but it still won't help you

just give her a genuine reason, nice and short, then switch it up and make it fun by teasing her

btw, this is what happens when you take that C&F or prizing sht to the extreme and just do it blindly without any social awareness. you become a socially uncalibrated tryhard
 

FairShake

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Tell her you're busy. Because I'm guessing you were. Truth is underrated. Wait a couple minutes before you start calling her a ho.
 
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