"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mackdaddy27

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whats a ****y and funny text i can reply with to :

"Hey wat happened 2 u callin me?"



I was thinking

"I got too busy, too many *****es callin me at the same time.....I might be able to squeeze in a call tomorrow like ten minute before I goto bed"



What do you think?


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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jokerlsk

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How about, "I forgot." lol. Sounds like such a douche thing to say
 

CaptainJ

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You sound pathetic and disinterested.

You don't have to come up with ****y and funny suave phrases for everything she says to you

"How was your day?"
"Not much, the usual banging loads of b1tches, staying cool in my hectic lifestyle"

"Are we still going to down to meet your mother this weekend?"
"No, but I'm going down on your mother this weekend."

Actually, that last one sounds quite good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ready123

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that's too tryhard man and it's not gonna do anything for you. if she's not a dumbass she'll be able to tell you're faking the prizing sht. that plus she'll get turned off because yeah it's ****y, but you left out the funny part. if she likes you enough she might overlook it but it still won't help you

just give her a genuine reason, nice and short, then switch it up and make it fun by teasing her

btw, this is what happens when you take that C&F or prizing sht to the extreme and just do it blindly without any social awareness. you become a socially uncalibrated tryhard
 

FairShake

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Tell her you're busy. Because I'm guessing you were. Truth is underrated. Wait a couple minutes before you start calling her a ho.
 
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