Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This woman I have been seeing for 5 months or so and we went on a little break so that she could take care of some personal issues. I said fine take whatever time you need. Bear in mind I still like this girl and wouldn't mind getting more serious with her. Bad thing is I think she knows that.

She just emailed me after about 10 days not talking saying "do you think maybe sometime in the next week or so you'd like to meet for dinner?"

Any quick, ****y and funny responses you guys can come up with that lets her know I haven't been just been sitting waiting for her to call or email me, but at the same time lets her know that I am interested in meeting her?

Thanks guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Why not? It could be fun. Where are you taking me?"
 

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"do you think maybe sometime in the next week or so you'd like to meet for dinner?"

You don't need to be ****y and or funny to have an effect on a woman.
My response would be 'sure, give me a call and we will set something up'. This forces 'her' to initiate...see what I'm saying? Let her chase after you some; let her know that she needs to work for your attention.

Now, all that being said, you may want to look at the reason why ‘she’ wanted a break. I promise you that she didn't need to take care of personal business, she just wanted a break from you but didn't want to come across like a b*tch.
 

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No it was. We have been dealing with this issue almost the entire relationship, and it finally came to a head. Totally unrelated to me. But thanks and keep them coming :).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How about this?

Why not? Could be fun. Where are you taking me? Mickey D's or Wendy's are unacceptable. :)

No seriously. Sure, give me a call and we will set something up.
 

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Um well i'd rather not get into it but the issue had something to do with her and is something she has had almost her entire life. She seems to be taking steps to clear it up.

Granted, it could in the long run be a deal breaker but for now I'd like to see where things lead.
 

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cordoncordon said:
How about this?

Why not? Could be fun. Where are you taking me? Mickey D's or Wendy's are unacceptable. :)

No seriously. Sure, give me a call and we will set something up.
Oh you'd bite after telling her that she's taking you out? Why wuss out?
 

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cordoncordon said:
How about this?

Why not? Could be fun. Where are you taking me? Mickey D's or Wendy's are unacceptable. :)

No seriously. Sure, give me a call and we will set something up.
Personally, I would leave the C&F bit for another time. C&F is good when you are being playful, but it can back fire in this type of situation. There is a time and place for ****y and funny, right now isn't one of those times. You need to play it cool bro.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cordoncordon said:
This woman I have been seeing for 5 months or so and we went on a little break so that she could take care of some personal issues.
ooooooooops!!! This is hor talk for "I'm being fvcked by other dudes right now and I don't want you in the way!!!"

WAKE UP kid, The Hor Matrix has you!!!
 
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