"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a little moral advice...

SgtSplacker

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Let me begin by saying that I don't really want to apply the plate theory here. This is an old friend and I don't want to play her. But since were technically just friends i'm a little unsure if this is really bad or not.

Went to xmas party with an old friend of almost 20 years. First time we see each other in at least 8 years. We had drunk sex that night for the first time. I don't really want to get serious with this girl, but she probably does like me.

At the party I meet one of her co-workers, huge titted nerdy chick. We vibed pretty good, I got her number on the way to the bathroom.

Considering that I don't want to do anything to hurt my old friend or make her look bad at all.

-1 Should I call the titty nerd to hook up?
-2 Should I tell the titty nerd it was a mistake to ask for her number?
-3 Should I tell my old friend I got titty nerds number?
-4 Should I just not call the titty nerd just to make sure I don't hurt anyone?

I'm leaning towards just not calling her, I was a little drunk when I got her number might have been a bad call but dam she looks good and I have a soft spot for chicks that like Star Wars... and have big tits
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PokerStar

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you are not in a commited relationship. you and you old friend were probably just looking for sex that night.

so carry on with your bad self.
 

JonJaper

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Option 1 - hook up with the big titted nerd. This is a no-brainer, there's nothing wrong with hooking up with more than one woman when you're not in a committed relationship.

If anything, it increases your value because you're the great catch and in demand with the ladies.

You don't need to tell your female friend about getting titty nerd's number (your friend doesn't NEED to know), but at the same time don't lie or hide it if it comes up in conversation.


Enjoy those big bouncy boobs! :)
 

SgtSplacker

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Thanks for the posts. I asked one of my buds and he suggested I just tell my friend that I didnt want our sex to ruin a good friendship, and that i'm dating other people. She does know i'm in a disfunctional right now so I guess thats understood.
 
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