"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need a little moral advice...

SgtSplacker

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Let me begin by saying that I don't really want to apply the plate theory here. This is an old friend and I don't want to play her. But since were technically just friends i'm a little unsure if this is really bad or not.

Went to xmas party with an old friend of almost 20 years. First time we see each other in at least 8 years. We had drunk sex that night for the first time. I don't really want to get serious with this girl, but she probably does like me.

At the party I meet one of her co-workers, huge titted nerdy chick. We vibed pretty good, I got her number on the way to the bathroom.

Considering that I don't want to do anything to hurt my old friend or make her look bad at all.

-1 Should I call the titty nerd to hook up?
-2 Should I tell the titty nerd it was a mistake to ask for her number?
-3 Should I tell my old friend I got titty nerds number?
-4 Should I just not call the titty nerd just to make sure I don't hurt anyone?

I'm leaning towards just not calling her, I was a little drunk when I got her number might have been a bad call but dam she looks good and I have a soft spot for chicks that like Star Wars... and have big tits
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PokerStar

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you are not in a commited relationship. you and you old friend were probably just looking for sex that night.

so carry on with your bad self.
 

JonJaper

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Option 1 - hook up with the big titted nerd. This is a no-brainer, there's nothing wrong with hooking up with more than one woman when you're not in a committed relationship.

If anything, it increases your value because you're the great catch and in demand with the ladies.

You don't need to tell your female friend about getting titty nerd's number (your friend doesn't NEED to know), but at the same time don't lie or hide it if it comes up in conversation.


Enjoy those big bouncy boobs! :)
 

SgtSplacker

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Thanks for the posts. I asked one of my buds and he suggested I just tell my friend that I didnt want our sex to ruin a good friendship, and that i'm dating other people. She does know i'm in a disfunctional right now so I guess thats understood.
 
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