"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a little moral advice...

SgtSplacker

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Let me begin by saying that I don't really want to apply the plate theory here. This is an old friend and I don't want to play her. But since were technically just friends i'm a little unsure if this is really bad or not.

Went to xmas party with an old friend of almost 20 years. First time we see each other in at least 8 years. We had drunk sex that night for the first time. I don't really want to get serious with this girl, but she probably does like me.

At the party I meet one of her co-workers, huge titted nerdy chick. We vibed pretty good, I got her number on the way to the bathroom.

Considering that I don't want to do anything to hurt my old friend or make her look bad at all.

-1 Should I call the titty nerd to hook up?
-2 Should I tell the titty nerd it was a mistake to ask for her number?
-3 Should I tell my old friend I got titty nerds number?
-4 Should I just not call the titty nerd just to make sure I don't hurt anyone?

I'm leaning towards just not calling her, I was a little drunk when I got her number might have been a bad call but dam she looks good and I have a soft spot for chicks that like Star Wars... and have big tits
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PokerStar

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you are not in a commited relationship. you and you old friend were probably just looking for sex that night.

so carry on with your bad self.
 

JonJaper

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Option 1 - hook up with the big titted nerd. This is a no-brainer, there's nothing wrong with hooking up with more than one woman when you're not in a committed relationship.

If anything, it increases your value because you're the great catch and in demand with the ladies.

You don't need to tell your female friend about getting titty nerd's number (your friend doesn't NEED to know), but at the same time don't lie or hide it if it comes up in conversation.


Enjoy those big bouncy boobs! :)
 

SgtSplacker

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Thanks for the posts. I asked one of my buds and he suggested I just tell my friend that I didnt want our sex to ruin a good friendship, and that i'm dating other people. She does know i'm in a disfunctional right now so I guess thats understood.
 
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