"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need a little bit of help.

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IronRice

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Alright. I want this girl. She's an HB9 and I wanted her in July. Shes a really busy girl and she had started getting busy around Now with alot of stuff. I was wondering if It was safe to even go after this girl. I dont want to tie her up with even MORE stuff my asking her out or anything.

What are yall's suggestions? Should I just take it slow and wait a bit??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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arutha

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That is no reason not to go for it at all... Thats just silly. If she honestly thinks she is too busy to go out with you, then she will tell you and you next her. If shes interested, she will find time.
 
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This is a stupid question...

You don't want to over burden her?

It should be her god damn privilege to go out with you. That's how a PUA should be thinking.

You are just making excuses to not make a move.
 
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Mr. Debonaire

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this is such a useless post

who gives a damn what she wants, this is about you

if you want her, go after her, let her find the time to fit her life around you
 
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