"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a little bit of help.

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IronRice

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Alright. I want this girl. She's an HB9 and I wanted her in July. Shes a really busy girl and she had started getting busy around Now with alot of stuff. I was wondering if It was safe to even go after this girl. I dont want to tie her up with even MORE stuff my asking her out or anything.

What are yall's suggestions? Should I just take it slow and wait a bit??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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arutha

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That is no reason not to go for it at all... Thats just silly. If she honestly thinks she is too busy to go out with you, then she will tell you and you next her. If shes interested, she will find time.
 
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This is a stupid question...

You don't want to over burden her?

It should be her god damn privilege to go out with you. That's how a PUA should be thinking.

You are just making excuses to not make a move.
 
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Mr. Debonaire

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this is such a useless post

who gives a damn what she wants, this is about you

if you want her, go after her, let her find the time to fit her life around you
 
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