"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need a little bit of help.

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IronRice

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Alright. I want this girl. She's an HB9 and I wanted her in July. Shes a really busy girl and she had started getting busy around Now with alot of stuff. I was wondering if It was safe to even go after this girl. I dont want to tie her up with even MORE stuff my asking her out or anything.

What are yall's suggestions? Should I just take it slow and wait a bit??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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arutha

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That is no reason not to go for it at all... Thats just silly. If she honestly thinks she is too busy to go out with you, then she will tell you and you next her. If shes interested, she will find time.
 
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This is a stupid question...

You don't want to over burden her?

It should be her god damn privilege to go out with you. That's how a PUA should be thinking.

You are just making excuses to not make a move.
 
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Mr. Debonaire

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this is such a useless post

who gives a damn what she wants, this is about you

if you want her, go after her, let her find the time to fit her life around you
 
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