"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need a little advice sort of a newbie trying to game.

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Okay I get the message about being your own in life and all and not caring or whatever about women or try to please them and do for them and be the best you can be what woman want etc... but I don't seem to get the gaming part down when I talk to women I just ask questions or do regular conversation. I need to know how to be in conversation to have them want to be interested like I am having NO luck with tinder I got this 1 girl I kinda like and she reply I tried a line a guy had on here now I need to go further.

I basically just said are you an archeologist
she said No..... What makes u say that
I said Got a bone to pick with you lol
She said Oh lord
Your smooth... I must say.

How do I go forward with this and all and you know get from start to finish?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you work on inner game?

narcissist said:
Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

inkedDJ

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Can someone explain to me why people run these lines on Tinder? I mean personally have been cleaning up on Tinder by just sending a mass copied message of "hey how are you". Then just toy with them after that.

I feel those initial corny responses come off as try hard and girls can read that. Instead take your time and joke with them after initial greetings. I mean they already had some attraction because of the way the app works. Laying it on more IMO looks cheesy.

Some weeks I've made 200 connections, got 100 girls to respond and culled them down to the top 10 or so after that. ended up with all of their numbers and have closed with most. Rarely do I see a flake, and I think the cheesiness can make that happen more.

Just my .02
 
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