"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Need a little advice sort of a newbie trying to game.

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Okay I get the message about being your own in life and all and not caring or whatever about women or try to please them and do for them and be the best you can be what woman want etc... but I don't seem to get the gaming part down when I talk to women I just ask questions or do regular conversation. I need to know how to be in conversation to have them want to be interested like I am having NO luck with tinder I got this 1 girl I kinda like and she reply I tried a line a guy had on here now I need to go further.

I basically just said are you an archeologist
she said No..... What makes u say that
I said Got a bone to pick with you lol
She said Oh lord
Your smooth... I must say.

How do I go forward with this and all and you know get from start to finish?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you work on inner game?

narcissist said:
Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

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Can someone explain to me why people run these lines on Tinder? I mean personally have been cleaning up on Tinder by just sending a mass copied message of "hey how are you". Then just toy with them after that.

I feel those initial corny responses come off as try hard and girls can read that. Instead take your time and joke with them after initial greetings. I mean they already had some attraction because of the way the app works. Laying it on more IMO looks cheesy.

Some weeks I've made 200 connections, got 100 girls to respond and culled them down to the top 10 or so after that. ended up with all of their numbers and have closed with most. Rarely do I see a flake, and I think the cheesiness can make that happen more.

Just my .02
 
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