"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need a little advice sort of a newbie trying to game.

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Okay I get the message about being your own in life and all and not caring or whatever about women or try to please them and do for them and be the best you can be what woman want etc... but I don't seem to get the gaming part down when I talk to women I just ask questions or do regular conversation. I need to know how to be in conversation to have them want to be interested like I am having NO luck with tinder I got this 1 girl I kinda like and she reply I tried a line a guy had on here now I need to go further.

I basically just said are you an archeologist
she said No..... What makes u say that
I said Got a bone to pick with you lol
She said Oh lord
Your smooth... I must say.

How do I go forward with this and all and you know get from start to finish?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you work on inner game?

narcissist said:
Oh god. Lmao

Respect for actually attempting to better yourself.

Work on inner game.

Workout

eat healthy

Read the dj bible endlessly

Meditate everyday

Approach every girl u see

Ask millions of questions on this forum

Work toward an education

If u do these things relentlessly I'd give it a year and a half before you successfully start spinning three plates at once
 

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Can someone explain to me why people run these lines on Tinder? I mean personally have been cleaning up on Tinder by just sending a mass copied message of "hey how are you". Then just toy with them after that.

I feel those initial corny responses come off as try hard and girls can read that. Instead take your time and joke with them after initial greetings. I mean they already had some attraction because of the way the app works. Laying it on more IMO looks cheesy.

Some weeks I've made 200 connections, got 100 girls to respond and culled them down to the top 10 or so after that. ended up with all of their numbers and have closed with most. Rarely do I see a flake, and I think the cheesiness can make that happen more.

Just my .02
 
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