"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey, been speaking this chick for a couple of days by text and made some joke neg about her being deported. She sent back at almost 1am on Tuesday night (2 hours later):

"Hahah oh dear! If that happens I'm blaming you for predicting it"

Thinking of sending back the next day:

"If anyones gonna be blaming anyone hun, its gonna be me for you waking me up last night with your message! Good thing ur kinda cute or I'd be extra mad with u :p"

Thoughts? Any edits?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thoughts - why haven't you asked her out?

Are you writing the next great American novel? If not, then you need to stop revising your clever texts and just ask her out.
 
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I have..she said next week since shes got family staying her atm. keeping interest alive with playful banter.
 
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spax said:
keeping interest alive with playful banter.
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How about saving all that banter for in person instead?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok I wont reply then and wait a week with no contact to ask out again.
 
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Still texting girls Spax? Pick up the phone!!!!!
 
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Why would you end it there when there's no reason to? You haven't done anything yet so keep it going for a meet up soon. But yes you had the right idea to text back the next day and do it at a reasonable time.

Id text something like, "too bad you'd be deported anyways..i would have loved to take you out".

Then you can gauge her interest in her reply and act accordingly.
 
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