"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey, been speaking this chick for a couple of days by text and made some joke neg about her being deported. She sent back at almost 1am on Tuesday night (2 hours later):

"Hahah oh dear! If that happens I'm blaming you for predicting it"

Thinking of sending back the next day:

"If anyones gonna be blaming anyone hun, its gonna be me for you waking me up last night with your message! Good thing ur kinda cute or I'd be extra mad with u :p"

Thoughts? Any edits?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thoughts - why haven't you asked her out?

Are you writing the next great American novel? If not, then you need to stop revising your clever texts and just ask her out.
 
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I have..she said next week since shes got family staying her atm. keeping interest alive with playful banter.
 
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spax said:
keeping interest alive with playful banter.
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How about saving all that banter for in person instead?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok I wont reply then and wait a week with no contact to ask out again.
 
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Still texting girls Spax? Pick up the phone!!!!!
 
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Why would you end it there when there's no reason to? You haven't done anything yet so keep it going for a meet up soon. But yes you had the right idea to text back the next day and do it at a reasonable time.

Id text something like, "too bad you'd be deported anyways..i would have loved to take you out".

Then you can gauge her interest in her reply and act accordingly.
 
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