"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spax

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Hey, been speaking this chick for a couple of days by text and made some joke neg about her being deported. She sent back at almost 1am on Tuesday night (2 hours later):

"Hahah oh dear! If that happens I'm blaming you for predicting it"

Thinking of sending back the next day:

"If anyones gonna be blaming anyone hun, its gonna be me for you waking me up last night with your message! Good thing ur kinda cute or I'd be extra mad with u :p"

Thoughts? Any edits?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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loveshogun

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Thoughts - why haven't you asked her out?

Are you writing the next great American novel? If not, then you need to stop revising your clever texts and just ask her out.
 

spax

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I have..she said next week since shes got family staying her atm. keeping interest alive with playful banter.
 

loveshogun

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spax said:
keeping interest alive with playful banter.
How about saving all that banter for in person instead?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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spax

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Ok I wont reply then and wait a week with no contact to ask out again.
 

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Still texting girls Spax? Pick up the phone!!!!!
 

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Why would you end it there when there's no reason to? You haven't done anything yet so keep it going for a meet up soon. But yes you had the right idea to text back the next day and do it at a reasonable time.

Id text something like, "too bad you'd be deported anyways..i would have loved to take you out".

Then you can gauge her interest in her reply and act accordingly.
 
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