Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
I am going to call up this chick tonight to ask her on a date. If she doesnt answer her phone I want to leave like a funny and or suave message. Any ideas?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
need a good message to leave on phone
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Royal Elite
Banned
The most suave message is the manly one.
Hi I called to set up dating arrangements to see you, I'm looking forward to seeing you again, call me back as soon as you get this so we can make plans.
Simple and to the point--the definition of a MAN!
Hi I called to set up dating arrangements to see you, I'm looking forward to seeing you again, call me back as soon as you get this so we can make plans.
Simple and to the point--the definition of a MAN!
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
I like to use DYD material here.
"Hi.. This is MacD, just calling to see whether you'd like to go for a coffee and some stimulating conversation.....that way if you turn out to be a scary person, I can say I need to go floss my cat and leave.. Its really important..... OK??? Call me!!!
Pretty old but field tested...
You could follow it up a week later if she hasn't called with
"What... playing hard to get already.. Nice... Call me"
"Hi.. This is MacD, just calling to see whether you'd like to go for a coffee and some stimulating conversation.....that way if you turn out to be a scary person, I can say I need to go floss my cat and leave.. Its really important..... OK??? Call me!!!
Pretty old but field tested...
You could follow it up a week later if she hasn't called with
"What... playing hard to get already.. Nice... Call me"
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
This is what I use :
"Hey it's Cent. What are you doing on XXX? Not that it matters though, I'm taking you out to XXX. Call me!"
you just gotta sound pretty ****y to pull it off.
"Hey it's Cent. What are you doing on XXX? Not that it matters though, I'm taking you out to XXX. Call me!"
you just gotta sound pretty ****y to pull it off.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
hahahaOriginally posted by Andromax
just breathe heavily for a minute and hang up
diablo
Master Don Juan
"Hi, this is Mr Delicious. I'm going to go do a search now and see what the last 2938498234 threads asking this question have recommended."
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