"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need a Game Plan

8daapple

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Hey everyone, I appreciate the people on this board. Been reading lots and learning. Here is my situation:

I've known this girl for a year now, and we haven't really been close or friends per say. there were some random text messages here and there.

3 weeks ago, we are all partying and I am drunk and dancing close to her and I tell her I'm attracted to her. To end the night, I give her a kiss goodnight. Nothing more.

2 weeks ago, we party again and this time we make out more this time. Things seem like they r escalating.

This past weekend, things get wild. We party and are completely over each other. We are touching each other, holding hands and making out like crazy. I end up back at her place and continue but it's getting late and I decide to go home.

We have made plans now to see each other tomorrow night on a one on one basis (away from our friends). I don't know if the momentum can continue but I want it to.

I want to be suave about, any suggestions or thoughts on how things are going?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Purefilth

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youngmack said:
No need to be harsh, but you should've smashed her back doors in right there. Probably even the second time you met her and made out.
I get it though, if you were tired and didn't think you would perform at the top of your game, should've made excuses earlier and not gone back... Still hindsight is a bvtch what plans did you make?
You should invite her over for a "movie". Move in for the kill fast, or she may think you're not man enough for her since you've already had a couple of chances that you didn't take.

Maybe start with a massage? Always leads to svx for me :D
 
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