"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need a Game Plan

8daapple

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Hey everyone, I appreciate the people on this board. Been reading lots and learning. Here is my situation:

I've known this girl for a year now, and we haven't really been close or friends per say. there were some random text messages here and there.

3 weeks ago, we are all partying and I am drunk and dancing close to her and I tell her I'm attracted to her. To end the night, I give her a kiss goodnight. Nothing more.

2 weeks ago, we party again and this time we make out more this time. Things seem like they r escalating.

This past weekend, things get wild. We party and are completely over each other. We are touching each other, holding hands and making out like crazy. I end up back at her place and continue but it's getting late and I decide to go home.

We have made plans now to see each other tomorrow night on a one on one basis (away from our friends). I don't know if the momentum can continue but I want it to.

I want to be suave about, any suggestions or thoughts on how things are going?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Purefilth

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youngmack said:
No need to be harsh, but you should've smashed her back doors in right there. Probably even the second time you met her and made out.
I get it though, if you were tired and didn't think you would perform at the top of your game, should've made excuses earlier and not gone back... Still hindsight is a bvtch what plans did you make?
You should invite her over for a "movie". Move in for the kill fast, or she may think you're not man enough for her since you've already had a couple of chances that you didn't take.

Maybe start with a massage? Always leads to svx for me :D
 
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