"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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8daapple

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Hey everyone, I appreciate the people on this board. Been reading lots and learning. Here is my situation:

I've known this girl for a year now, and we haven't really been close or friends per say. there were some random text messages here and there.

3 weeks ago, we are all partying and I am drunk and dancing close to her and I tell her I'm attracted to her. To end the night, I give her a kiss goodnight. Nothing more.

2 weeks ago, we party again and this time we make out more this time. Things seem like they r escalating.

This past weekend, things get wild. We party and are completely over each other. We are touching each other, holding hands and making out like crazy. I end up back at her place and continue but it's getting late and I decide to go home.

We have made plans now to see each other tomorrow night on a one on one basis (away from our friends). I don't know if the momentum can continue but I want it to.

I want to be suave about, any suggestions or thoughts on how things are going?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Purefilth

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youngmack said:
No need to be harsh, but you should've smashed her back doors in right there. Probably even the second time you met her and made out.
I get it though, if you were tired and didn't think you would perform at the top of your game, should've made excuses earlier and not gone back... Still hindsight is a bvtch what plans did you make?
You should invite her over for a "movie". Move in for the kill fast, or she may think you're not man enough for her since you've already had a couple of chances that you didn't take.

Maybe start with a massage? Always leads to svx for me :D
 
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