"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PeterCrouch

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She messaged me online to say "You have a lot of pictures of your butt...Not that I was perving"

She's engaged too and I've we have a little private joke regarding the perving, as I once told her I wasn't perving at her boobs because she was engaged. Despite them being pieces of art!

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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horaholic

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You can't think of one yourself???? The possibilities are endless.
 

PeterCrouch

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Jesus. Didn't realise this was a test. Ok...

behave! No dirty talk! You have to earn that!

Or something like...You girls are all the same. Sexual Predators the lot of you! I'm tired of girls looking at me like an object. I have feelings!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why not just laugh at her joke? No need to be the "try hard" guy who always has to have a funny line.
 

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FairShake said:
Why not just laugh at her joke? No need to be the "try hard" guy who always has to have a funny line.
Yes, but he does want to amp up the sexual tension in this case.

OP, depends on how bold you wanna be.

Tame: "I've gotten many compliments on that butt!"

Bolder: "Don't worry sweetie, I know you can't control yourself! I'm used to it ;)"

You get the idea.
 

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ARrocket said:
Yes, but he does want to amp up the sexual tension in this case.
Kinda sounds like it's already there.

I think being ****y works if it is organic and comes without thinking. If he is planning it...well, that's trying too hard.
 
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