"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She messaged me online to say "You have a lot of pictures of your butt...Not that I was perving"

She's engaged too and I've we have a little private joke regarding the perving, as I once told her I wasn't perving at her boobs because she was engaged. Despite them being pieces of art!

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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horaholic

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You can't think of one yourself???? The possibilities are endless.
 
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PeterCrouch

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Jesus. Didn't realise this was a test. Ok...

behave! No dirty talk! You have to earn that!

Or something like...You girls are all the same. Sexual Predators the lot of you! I'm tired of girls looking at me like an object. I have feelings!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FairShake

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Why not just laugh at her joke? No need to be the "try hard" guy who always has to have a funny line.
 
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FairShake said:
Why not just laugh at her joke? No need to be the "try hard" guy who always has to have a funny line.
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Yes, but he does want to amp up the sexual tension in this case.

OP, depends on how bold you wanna be.

Tame: "I've gotten many compliments on that butt!"

Bolder: "Don't worry sweetie, I know you can't control yourself! I'm used to it ;)"

You get the idea.
 
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ARrocket said:
Yes, but he does want to amp up the sexual tension in this case.
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Kinda sounds like it's already there.

I think being ****y works if it is organic and comes without thinking. If he is planning it...well, that's trying too hard.
 
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