"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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need a c/f line here

Mr. Delicious

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I am on the facebook which is basically a site with 1000's of college students on it. you have to have a college email address to even post on there. Basically you put up a pic of yourself and a profile and you can search for people. you can even search by all the people who went to your highschool. Pretty much everyone is honest with their pics. I have seen tons of people I know or i have seen before like in highschool and they all had their real pics. So i am searching through profiles of girls into cars and theres a nice asian HB 8 that goes to my university. On her profile it says she likes 69 trans ams and camaros. So then I sent her a message.

My message (something like this): why do you only like 69 year model F-bodies? Why you hatin on the other first gens? I own an f-body myself, so I was curious.

Her reply: haha I'm not hating... I love any first get, I just LOVE the 69rs/ss and the trans am because it's the first year for ta's. I'm thinking about getting a 67 bird... Haha sorry I hope that clears up the confusion.


I want a good c/f message to send back. help me out guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious
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I am on the facebook which is basically a site with 1000's of college students on it. you have to have a college email address to even post on there. Basically you put up a pic of yourself and a profile and you can search for people. you can even search by all the people who went to your highschool. Pretty much everyone is honest with their pics. I have seen tons of people I know or i have seen before like in highschool and they all had their real pics. So i am searching through profiles of girls into cars and theres a nice asian HB 8 that goes to my university. On her profile it says she likes 69 trans ams and camaros. So then I sent her a message.

My message (something like this): why do you only like 69 year model F-bodies? Why you hatin on the other first gens? I own an f-body myself, so I was curious.

Her reply: haha I'm not hating... I love any first get, I just LOVE the 69rs/ss and the trans am because it's the first year for ta's. I'm thinking about getting a 67 bird... Haha sorry I hope that clears up the confusion.


I want a good c/f message to send back. help me out guys
Tell her, "You love to 69? Eww that's gross why are you telling me this?"
 

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You've already done it. She "laughed" twice and made exceptions for your response (She's looking at a 67).
Don't call her on BS two times in a row because you want to be funny. Lift the hood. Tell her what you've got.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
This is lame. We're not going to be "telling you a good C&F line" when you're out on a date. Try one out for yourself and see what happens. Then learn from it.

the "ewww 69" is kinda immature IMHO.
Yes I know that obviously. I just wanted something good to follow up with. I dont know this girl so first impressions are important.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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