"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need a bit of clarity, what does this mean?

Audiophile

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I was talking to one of the girls I have some interest in. I was talking to her today, and she brought up some other girl who she said likes me, and told me to "Tap that", I told her that the girl was way below what girls I normally go out (the girl was still decent looking though).

Anyways, I'm 90% this means I'm friendzoned for this girl, just wondering what you guys think. I have a small amount of interest in this girl, but there are plenty of others. I was wondering what this meant in case it happens again, which is common.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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eaglez1177

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Friendzoned? Lol dude you dont know what "tap that" means? If your friend was being serious about this other girl, and wasnt just messing around with you, it means that this chick's friend (the one below ur standards) totally wants you. Your friend is telling you to "tap that", or in other words, get with her and do stuff with her.
 

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I think you misunderstand the problem. It was the girl that said "tap that" that I was actually interested in, not the girl we were talking about. Does this mean the girl that told me to get with this other girl has no sexual interest in me, because she easily tells me to get with other girls?
 

TheEnergizer

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lol i think the third word of his third sentence is the answer to your question. apparently he automatically concluded that if shes telling you 'tap that' to other chicks she must be your friend. sorry dude. but i dont know the details, anything can happen
 
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