Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need a bit of clarity, what does this mean?

Audiophile

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I was talking to one of the girls I have some interest in. I was talking to her today, and she brought up some other girl who she said likes me, and told me to "Tap that", I told her that the girl was way below what girls I normally go out (the girl was still decent looking though).

Anyways, I'm 90% this means I'm friendzoned for this girl, just wondering what you guys think. I have a small amount of interest in this girl, but there are plenty of others. I was wondering what this meant in case it happens again, which is common.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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eaglez1177

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Friendzoned? Lol dude you dont know what "tap that" means? If your friend was being serious about this other girl, and wasnt just messing around with you, it means that this chick's friend (the one below ur standards) totally wants you. Your friend is telling you to "tap that", or in other words, get with her and do stuff with her.
 

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I think you misunderstand the problem. It was the girl that said "tap that" that I was actually interested in, not the girl we were talking about. Does this mean the girl that told me to get with this other girl has no sexual interest in me, because she easily tells me to get with other girls?
 

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lol i think the third word of his third sentence is the answer to your question. apparently he automatically concluded that if shes telling you 'tap that' to other chicks she must be your friend. sorry dude. but i dont know the details, anything can happen
 
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