"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need a bit of clarity, what does this mean?

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Audiophile

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I was talking to one of the girls I have some interest in. I was talking to her today, and she brought up some other girl who she said likes me, and told me to "Tap that", I told her that the girl was way below what girls I normally go out (the girl was still decent looking though).

Anyways, I'm 90% this means I'm friendzoned for this girl, just wondering what you guys think. I have a small amount of interest in this girl, but there are plenty of others. I was wondering what this meant in case it happens again, which is common.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Friendzoned? Lol dude you dont know what "tap that" means? If your friend was being serious about this other girl, and wasnt just messing around with you, it means that this chick's friend (the one below ur standards) totally wants you. Your friend is telling you to "tap that", or in other words, get with her and do stuff with her.
 
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I think you misunderstand the problem. It was the girl that said "tap that" that I was actually interested in, not the girl we were talking about. Does this mean the girl that told me to get with this other girl has no sexual interest in me, because she easily tells me to get with other girls?
 
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lol i think the third word of his third sentence is the answer to your question. apparently he automatically concluded that if shes telling you 'tap that' to other chicks she must be your friend. sorry dude. but i dont know the details, anything can happen
 
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