triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I haven't seen a Jersey thread lately...just moved here for college and am looking for people to hang out with. Who else is from this area?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NE jersey/NYC area
- Thread starter triple_ultima
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Seton Hall, in south orange.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] and request to join the NYC Lair to meet up with wings in your area. Just say that Papa sent you.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KnightRyder
Senior Don Juan
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NY/Nj area I goto the city a lot but I am from the rockland and bergen area. I'm a 24 yo dude with a nice car hehe. Anyone looking for a wing hit me up.
BrooklynZoo
New Member
Wassup I'm down here in Central Jersey where the excitement never stops
Chris Dash
Don Juan
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I'm on Staten Island. Get me off this rock.
91redrotary
Don Juan
Queens Dj here.
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me