triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Yeah I haven't seen a Jersey thread lately...just moved here for college and am looking for people to hang out with. Who else is from this area?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
NE jersey/NYC area
- Thread starter triple_ultima
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
triple_ultima
Senior Don Juan
Seton Hall, in south orange.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] and request to join the NYC Lair to meet up with wings in your area. Just say that Papa sent you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KnightRyder
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NY/Nj area I goto the city a lot but I am from the rockland and bergen area. I'm a 24 yo dude with a nice car hehe. Anyone looking for a wing hit me up.
BrooklynZoo
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Wassup I'm down here in Central Jersey where the excitement never stops
Chris Dash
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I'm on Staten Island. Get me off this rock.
91redrotary
Don Juan
Queens Dj here.
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me
Queens here Rosedale to be exact.
Clubbin every weekend. Definetly wouldn't mind a wingman. Sometimes my cousin backs out on me